I’ve always been a fan of the quote, “Done is perfect.” That said, I have my own version of that quote: “Half-done is almost perfect.” Apparently, not everyone agrees with me, because when I looked up synonyms for the word half-done, I saw words like, unaccomplished, unfinished, incomplete, and neglected. Well, I just don’t see it that way, especially because I have a completely different connection to the word half-done.
It started when I was in my early 20’s. I was in an open water swimming race, and the task was a bit intimidating for me. The race consisted of a 2.4-mile ocean swim that took us out to a buoy at the half way point of the race, and back. I can still remember that buoy marked by a big box on the top, because it seemed impossibly far away. As I stood on the shoreline before the race began, all I kept thinking was this: “Just get out to that buoy, you can turn for home, and you’ll be fine.”
After we lined up along the beach, I joined 750 other race contestants nervously making our way into the water. Once the race began, and the swimmers began to distance themselves from each other, I settled into a routine with simple mantra; “focus on your technique, control what you can control, and fight your way to that buoy!
That mantra served me well, but something interesting occurred in that race that I wasn’t expecting. Once I actually did get myself around that buoy and turned back to the shore, I felt a bolt of energy, and for the first time, I could feel myself relaxing just a bit. After all, I was no longer swimming away from safety and certainty; I was swimming back to it. The focus on my technique was no longer manufactured; it was effortless. I felt in control of my situation, and I grew stronger from it. The act of psychologically moving past that buoy and the halfway point made the task easier because I wasn’t questioning if I would succeed; I was focusing on when I’d succeed.
As no surprise to anyone, my split time was significantly faster swimming back to shore than swimming away from it. I had more strength and endurance because I was no longer wasting energy questioning whether I would succeed at my task. From that day on, I approached each endurance event in the same way: Whether I was swimming, running, cycling, or hiking, I looked for what would be the halfway point, and mentally referred to that as my buoy. Once I reached that buoy, my mental and physical state always improved… dramatically.
We all participate in our own type of endurance events, most of which have nothing to do with actually racing, or even sports. When I write books, or mentor others in writing their books, one of the first things I look for is an expected wordcount. If that wordcount or goal is 50,000 words, the halfway point, or, the “buoy,” is 25,000 words. It’s not easy writing 25,000 words. In fact, it’s often not much fun at all. But do you know what is fun? The second 25,000 words, because it represents getting around that buoy, and turning back to the shore.
In fact, this half-done image, represented by a simple buoy floating in the water, can be applied to almost any task that comes with long-term goals;
- A financial goal in business
- Earning a degree or professional certificate
- Expanding your professional network
Think about some of the larger goals that you may have. What is the buoy that can represent a half-done position in one of your big goals? Done may be perfect, but a half-done milestone deserves much more attention than we naturally give it. It provides the momentum we all look for as we take on an overwhelming task. Look for the buoy in any of your long-term goals, and you’ll find that finishing is within your grasp.
What do you get when combine energy, enthusiasm… and great content? You get a “Pocket Sized Pep Talk!” Tune in and you’ll hear a collection of BLArticles®, conversations, and interviews that are sure to teach, motivate, inspire, and oh yes; entertain! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pocket-sized-pep-talks/id1497772972
I was on, “It’s Not Rocket Science! Five Questions Over Coffee,” a fun podcast with Stuart Webb. You can listen to the podcast here: https://thecompleteapproach.substack.com/p/five-questions-over-coffee-with-rob#details
If you are looking for something to listen to on your next coffee break you might enjoy this brief chat between me and Tom Bailey, Founder of Succeed Through Speaking and the Succeed Through Speaking podcast. Listen closely if you would like some high value ideas to boost your business results.
You can read the transcript here – https://bit.ly/3BOfU7o
You can watch the podcast here – https://youtu.be/w-QgGvweE2M
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I Zoomed my way to India to speak with Motivational Diaries, and Ashish Janiani. We spoke for about 30 minutes about sales processes and training for success.
Sales Process To Sales Success || Interview With Robert Jolles – YouTube
If you want to read some “Life Lessons” I was able to share in a recent interview, you’ll find them here: https://worldclassperformer.com/short-life-lessons-from-robert-jolles/
I had the pleasure of appearing on Robert Miller’s, Follow Your Dream Podcast and thoroughly enjoyed the discussion. We go way back in this conversation to my first memories of performance… at age four! I’m sure you’ll enjoy it! https://follow-your-dream.simplecast.com/episodes/rob-jolles-superstar-salesman
I took another spin on, “The Abundant Accountant” podcast, and talked about a number of issues including why sales training so often fails found here: https://theabundantaccountant.com/episode-101-why-sales-training-for-accountants-and-tax-firm-owners-fails-and-how-to-avoid-it-with-rob-jolles
I also mixed it up with a wonderful podcaster, Terry McDougall on her Marketing Mambo show. As she puts it, we “Cha-cha-chatted!” If you want to hear sales and marketing go toe-to-toe, you’ll enjoy this show. https://www.buzzsprout.com/1569061/8172686-the-art-of-influence-in-sales-and-marketing-with-rob-jolles
I recently did a podcast with a wonderful, new, and up-and-coming star named Jahmaal Marshall. His podcast is called, “Listen Then Speak.” I’ve done a lot of podcasts, but we got into topics I rarely talk about, and I’m quite sure you’ll enjoy the show! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listen-then-speak/id1550684472
I’ve appeared on the “Small Business Advocate Show” with Jim Blasingame for almost 20 years now, and you’ll find dozens of our conversations on his website. We just sat down a few weeks ago for a great conversation about selling fundamentals and the strategic use of stories. Here’s a link to over 100 interviews done over the years, including my most recent interview that explores our many behaviors we display that are based more on a default mechanism than actual logic. https://www.smallbusinessadvocate.com/small-business-experts/rob-jolles-134
We posted a video series on delivering amazing online presentations with my friend, Jeremy Webb. We go over some great stuff including:
- How to Select the Best Equipment for Online Presentations
- Pro Tips for Sustaining Interest in Online Presentations
- How to Look Like a Pro!
- Public Speaking Anxiety Tip
- Virtual Office Setup for Online Presentations
You’ll find the whole playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRO7BsBDl6oL-6ZPW3O01x-g5PiR38ljL
I was recently interviewed on the “Salesman Podcast,” which was a lot of fun. If you’re looking to Change Minds, check out this podcast: https://www.salesman.org/the-simple-step-by-step-process-to-influence-anyone-with-rob-jolles/
I loved talking about the book, Why People Don’t Believe You on a podcast that I’m sure you’ll like called Onward Nation: https://predictiveroi.com/podcasts/rob-jolles/
After 30+ years as a professional speaker and trainer, one of the most common questions I get is this: “How do we make sure the training sticks?” Take a moment and listen to this podcast; “SalesChats” with John Golden. If you want to know why most training fails, listen up! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KR3dDOlTK7U&list=FLxBXKhqz0xBwbUPMqNthAJA&index=2&t=1293s
Having finished a 91,500 word book, I greatly appreciate this blog. Getting to 25,000 words was harder than the last 66,500. Thanks for the life lesson and encouragement!
Way to drive that baby across the finish line Wayne! I can almost guarantee when you climbed past 45,000 you put the throttle down. Thanks for posting!
Great advice, Rob
Nice to hear from you John! Thanks for reading and posting!
So true Rob! I find it helps me get started to shorten the goal and once I’m halfway the rest is easier because I can visualize making it to the end, whatever the task. I truly believe in my success which makes it easier as you said. Thx for another great BLArticle!
There’s nothing like getting to the top of the mountain and working your way down. Thanks so much for posting Bob!
You know Rob I never thought of it that way..
half done. Interesting 🤔
Don’t get me wrong, I’m looking to BE done, but half done does provide a wonderful incentive to keep moving forward. Thanks for posting!
Suberb advice Rob,
I’m providing to one of my sons who has started some woodworking. He wants to keep refining his first project to the point that he risks losing the whole piece.
Time to move on to the next project and use the previous work as a learning tool.
I can’t tell you how many people I know, with longterm projects, suffer from not letting it go. I’m with you; it’s a learning tool. Learn, evolve, move on! Thanks for posting!