Pressure Me… Please!

If you’ve read my BLArticles® or books, you know I’ve never liked the word “nervous.” It’s a useless word to me because I’ve never known anyone who performed better when nervous.  I’m actually a fan of the word, “anxious.”  Now, there’s a word I can get behind.  When...

The Times They Are A-Changin’

I’m a talker.  No news there. I’m from a family of talkers.  Bump into anyone who came from the Jolles clan and you won’t question that statement either. I love teaching, motivating, and inspiring people, and I have been doing it for almost 40 years now.  I have no...

Communicate With Confidence Without Saying A Word

Early in life, we start to hear people tell us that we need to communicate with confidence.  Sounds simple enough, but if it’s that simple, why does it remain a stumbling block for so many of us?  It requires a whole lot more than reminders or criticism. Having...

The Can’t Miss Holiday

I’m a New Year’s Eve man.  No doubt about it, and I’m not ashamed to admit it.  What can you say about New Years Eve that isn’t positive?  Christmas is a wonderful holiday, but not everyone celebrates Christmas.  The same could be said for Kwanzaa, Bodhi Day, Hanukah,...